Does your partner feel the rabbit is their friend or a competitor? Until recently, I thought that this was a subject consigned to history. I had assumed that all couples considered had a toy box and that it was a mutual source of fun and games. I thought it common for the toybox to be open for both partners to play and that both would feel comfortable with the idea. The other day, I spoke to a reader and was amazed to hear her say that her partner had not allowed her to get a vibrator. She said he felt threatened by the toy and saw it as unnecessary as he would be all she would ever need. Really? I thought, whatever happened to “Sisters are doing it for themselves”? and just why in the 21st century was he so appalled by the idea of a toy in the bedroom? Is that more common? Is it a geographical thing? Religious? Age-related? I would really like to know because I can’t believe that this is a topic at all. I would expect it to be more like, what are your favorite toys to use together? Do you keep a bullet vibrator in your handbag “just in case”? What is the most outrageous toy you have ever considered? I ask those questions as well, but I also wonder if I have stumbled across a taboo I was not expecting.
Incidentally, I asked the lady reader what she had done about the vibrator, she told me that she had it hidden and was constantly surprised at how quickly the batteries ran out.
As always I’d like to hear your experience or any views on here on the blog, Facebook, or twitter