Strong voices of romance
By E Pettersen
I love a good romance. I’ve been reading romance novels since the age of fifteen, and I enjoy becoming immersed in a world of passion and drama, where a strong bond exists between lovers.
However, I noticed over the years that the plots wore thin, and characters lacked depth in the pile of romance books that I collected. Some of the books had scenes that were red flags: abusive relationships, women not standing up for themselves, and blurred lines concerning consent. On top of that, I was tired of the submissive protagonist.
A strong voice
I wanted a story about a protagonist with a strong voice who dared to stand her ground. I yearned to read about a woman who broke gender stereotypes in love—a protagonist who represented empowerment. At first, I thought I was alone with these thoughts, but I met other readers and writers who cheered for romance books with a bold protagonist who:
-
Is not afraid to try new things.
-
Has visible scars, lines, marks, tattoos, or piercings that are part of her beauty.
-
Takes the lead and commands respect.
-
Is proud and open about her preferences (gender, sexual, lifestyle, etc.).
-
Can think for herself and show her courage in times of adversity.
-
Is brave enough to admit when she needs emotional support.
Trust and connection
I find it easier to connect with a protagonist with a strong voice because she feels “real.” When the protagonist drives the plot together with her lover, the story seems to flow better, and I get a sense of teamwork in resolving conflicts.
As an avid romance reader, I feel a better connection and trust in a male protagonist who respects a woman. His ability to engage, listen, and commit doesn’t diminish his dominance. On the contrary, it gives him credibility, reliability, and character depth. This, to me, is a true alpha male made for a healthy, intimate, and loving relationship.
All in all, I’m part of the bandwagon of readers who want strong voices and empowerment in romance books. The strong voices of romance help promote positive thinking where equality is a fundamental necessity for a relationship to grow.
When I submitted my manuscript Lessons on Seduction, an upcoming romance novel, to Black Velvet Seductions, I was already familiar with some of the books, which have powerful plots and characters with unique voices. Here are a few books I’ve read recently:
-
Perilous Love by Jan Selbourne. Why I love it: the protagonist, Gabrielle, was born in the Victorian era, but her true character came out when she and her husband, Adrian, faced some really tough and scary situations during World War I. She was gutsy and courageous.
-
Patrick by Callie Carmen. Why I love it: I felt a solid balance in the relationship between Jaq and Patrick. I also admired Jaq’s honesty, forthrightness, and intelligence. She speaks her mind.
-
Edgeplay and Hard Limits by Annabel Allan. Why I love them: I liked Ava’s confidence and her maturity in handling people and situations. She’s logical and rational with her thoughts and ideas. I also love that she was honest, both with herself and others.
Great article. Really looking forward to Lessons on Seduction.
Wonderful blog. I love strong female characters too. I’m so glad you liked Jaq. Thank you. I can’t wait to read, Lessons on Seduction.
Thanks, Callie. I felt like she was a friend, someone who stood her ground and was true to herself all the way throughout the book.
Ditto… Great Article. Thank goodness we write mostly for females. Many men (older men) do not like women with strong voices and highly independent. I speak from experience.
i also love these writers! Yes, finding a female protagonist with those dominant traits can be challenging. Some writers are still using a 16th century model of the fainting heroine! A really good perspective here! And yes, a heroine should have some visible scars, just like “The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo.”
Great blog. Yes. I also love heroines with strong voices. I agree. Jan, Callie and Annabel are fabulous writers.
I’ve read so many romances where it is the damsel in distress and the guy has to go save her, but I love the stories where women are strong enough to fight and maybe even save the guy for a change…or where they work together to save the day.
Great article! 🙂
Great blog Estelle! I too love strong heroines with a strong voice. They’re fun to read and write.
Yes! I like variety I my heroines because it reflects life but was wondering where the modern day Elizabeth Bennett’s were. I think she fits your check list.
Elizabeth Bennett – I love her!