Shibari bondage is it a kink, or is it an art form? I have followed the Japanese art of Shibari both ground-based and suspended for a lot of years. I saw my first demonstration at an art exhibition at the Barbican Centre in London back in 2005. I thought of bondage as a bit kinky at the time, I did not see it as anything other than an activity some people did, in the privacy of their own bedroom, for there own pleasure. I have read a lot more, seen more and even had a modest attempt as Shabari since then and have great respect for the “Riggers” ( those who do the tying) and the models that have the patience of Jobe to stand, sit, lay, crouch and in some cases hang in a position to be tied for this artwork. The illustration is a little bit of Shibari that I did earlier this year for a photoshoot at my studio.
On a broader note, this is just a pet theory of mine. I have considered that some people’s need for the constraint of bondage may stem from a more maternal need. For this theory, I offer three cases for your consideration. Firstly the constriction of the womb, a basic need to be held tightly, leads onto the swaddling of infants to comfort them and in turn our need for a tight hug at moments of joy and grief. Just my own thoughts there.
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SHIBARI KINK OR ART FORM?
