What do men think about during sex?
On September 17, 2018 | 0 Comments

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Who can get into a man’s mind especially during sex? It has been a long weekend. I went to a party last night, but a lot of the weekend I have been reading this fabulous novel. I am sorry I missed the blog yesterday.  I have been thinking about topics for the blog, and I remembered a throwaway line that came in as a response to an earlier blog. She asked, what goes on in a guy’s mind when having sex. When making love my boyfriend has a funny look on his face.  Is it concentration or what?  I thought it a good and valid question.

From my own experience, working out what is going on in a man’s mind is almost impossible at the best of times. I asked a boyfriend once what he was thinking about when we were having dinner.  He replied he was thinking about checking the tire pressures on his car. So when I read the question from the reader, I thought, who can tell?  He might be thinking about the car’s next service for all I know.  For that matter what do women think about during sex?

At the party, I chatted with a friend. She said, her boyfriend only likes making love in the missionary position. That while laying there looking up, she thought, that the ceiling needed a mural painted on it.

 I did read Scott Muska’s entertaining blog on the subject.  13 thoughts (most) guys have during sex.  It is worth a read. Most seems to be performance worries, either about not pleasing their partner and concerns about premature ejaculation.  Both of those are very natural anxieties, and I imagine most women worry about similar matters.

Something new to think about after making love? For me, I can never remember. I kind of lose myself in the moment.  It might be worth asking your partner what they are thinking about during sex when you are relaxing after making love.

I’d love to hear your thoughts and comments here on the blog, the BVS Facebook page, or my Facebook page. We have a twitter page too, and we are always happy to follow people that follow us.

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