Please welcome guest author Anissa Blume to the blog. Anissa is the newest author to join the Black Velvet Seductions family. She writes what some have called “realistic” domestic discipline stories. Her first story Cultural Concessions is available for purchase now. You can check it out at Amazon or at Smashwords. It’s just .99 either place.
Anissa is here today to talk about the heroes in her domestic discipline stories.
With all the stress in our busy lives, I think erotica is a great ‘mental-getaway’, an exciting oasis that captures our focus, at least for a little while. Romance stories with an edgy twist give a stimulating time-out.
Domestic discipline may sound mean and scary, but it depends on the context. In my opinion, a lot depends upon the hero. It is after all, the hero who holds the responsibility for discipline within the marriages I write about.
My heroes are men who are accomplished because of years of striving to do their best, working hard, and doing things ‘right’. They believe in self-discipline and responsibility. They look at their wives, their mates, as wonderful women who will complement them in their marriages. These men admire kind, nurturing women and are willing to provide, protect, and care for them. Men of strong values and integrity, they won’t accept mediocrity or irresponsible behavior that will hurt their marriages or put any one in danger.
The heroes have learned that there are consequences to irresponsible behavior and because of their own understanding, have become the successes they are. When they see their wives having continual patterns of poor conduct, they decide to implement domestic discipline as an instrument to meet the expectations agreed upon in their marriages.
The heroines are not bad women; they’ve just veered off the original path. They have not had the discipline their husbands have had, they have not learned by consequences that irresponsible behavior has adverse effects. The heroines are women with great potential and the heroes are determined to help them reach it.
Once the heroes decide that discipline is the definitive answer to improve a situation, they are not willing to change their minds; they are men of determination and their decisions are final. They do not force this upon their wives however, they allow them to decide to partake or not. If the wives do not want to submit to the discipline, the heroes are prepared to end the relationships because they believe there are no other avenues; the standards for their marriages are high.
My heroines agree to the discipline, not the minute it is suggested, but after some careful consideration and understanding that their husbands love them deeply and believe the discipline will be constructive. When it’s time to discipline, the heroes get the job done. It will hurt, but never harm the heroines and loving forgiveness always follows.
The heroes don’t feel superior to their wives, but heroes do feel qualified to make the decisions to discipline. Heroes want things to go well for heroines, and themselves.
No spoons or spatulas are used. Heroes are serious about the disciplining, and formal too. They have a designated implement, a strap or a paddle purchased for the purpose, and sometimes their own belt can substitute. When their wives are naked before them, heroes feel responsibility. It’s about loving correction and not about sex; heroes battle arousal when it occurs.
Eventually it’s clear that the incorporation of domestic discipline is enhancing and helpful. Their goals as couples and individuals are met.
I want readers to admire my heroes when the heroines come before them for their discipline. Understand this is love with a twist of edgy domination and submission between two people who agree it works for them. A dose of guilt-free arousal, not political correctness, is what I want readers to experience. The mix of passion and discipline is exciting if intelligence and caring are at the core. I hope readers enjoy my stories and will be willing to give me their opinions or suggestions for future domestic discipline tales.
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